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Tuesday, March 13, 2012
Monday, December 19, 2011
Pneumonia again; and stitches in the head
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Aliah getting the nebulizer treatment in the emergency room |
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so happy! |
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Aliff in his head bandage |
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Sleeping on his tummy, like I said. |
Wednesday, November 23, 2011
The 2-year mark – Success is Sweet
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That's my little boy. He's reading A Time to Kill - John Grisham. |


Thursday, June 16, 2011
BENEFITS OF A PLAYGROUP
As my kids age gap are quite close (their birthdays are 20 months apart), the sibling rivalry is pretty intense i.e. a lot of fighting and bickering and pushing, and of course, bawling. The playgroup actually teaches my daughter to share things, take turns at doing something and learn some manners and the appropriate behavior with her friends. In turn, she teaches her little brother how to share. It’s really funny to see them ‘sharing’ a toy; they weren’t even playing, they just keep passing the toy back and forth to each other!
As a working parent, I have to admit, it’s difficult to find time to do activities with your kids by yourself. Just imagining myself sitting with them, painting and scribbling, gives me a headache. Because they definitely won’t sit down quietly; they’ll bicker over the crayons or paints, or even worse, run around the house and mess up the walls, sofas and the tv! A child may not be allowed to use scissors or make messes at home, but painting, scribbling, cutting, gluing and messes are definitely encouraged at playgroups.
Activities like these are best supervised by parents, but knowing the busy moms nowadays, who would have the time to play all day when you have cleaning and cooking and laundry to do? At playgroups, the playtime is somewhat structured; you sing first, then do some crafts, then you put away the crafts and do some physical play, then finally a group reading. When it’s time for the next activity, the children would clean up to get ready for the next task. For example, when a child wants to keep on colouring, she sees her friends cleaning up and gathering around the teacher to read a book, she quickly cleans up too, not wanting to be left behind. It’s like the children are automatically conscious of their peers, making them want to blend in, do the same things together, conform to each other and work as a team.
It’s kinda funny, but I myself look forward to these Saturday playgroups, which means exclusive bonding time spent with my daughter. This exclusive time is pretty scarce, as both my kids are endlessly fighting for my attention (sounds flattering, I know. But believe me, it’s a lot of headache.). It’s nice to be able to focus on her alone, see her play and sing and scribble. This one hour is also like a break for me from things, stuff, tasks – to do at home.
Here are some of the activities they do at the playgroup, which are mostly group reading, craft play, alphabets, singing and some physical play.
Group reading
Singing and dancing with body movements
Messy crafts such as finger painting
Even birthday celebrations
Lots and lots of colouring
A special activity done by ALIMKids – Parachute play
The truth is, I’ve never seen a parachute play before encountering this playgroup. So I feel that it’s worth a brief explanation in itself.
Benefits of Parachute Play
- Encourages cooperation, teamwork and creates a group awareness
- Non-competitive - Differing abilities and even differing ages are non-issue. It focuses on playing, not winning
- Refines perceptual skills - Reinforces turn-taking/ sharing
- Develops a sense of rhythm - Requires following directions
- Promotes social interaction - Enhances language development
- Delightful imaginative play – encouraging role play such as pirates, princess or treasure hunter
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Finally, graduation!
I highly recommend enrolling your kids to a playgroup like this. It’s a fun and great social environment plus informal learning for your child. It’s also a great bonding experience for you and your child. What’s not to love?
Wednesday, February 9, 2011
Water Babies - Toddler update
- Blowing bubbles
- Going underwater
- Floating
Blowing bubbles

“Going down to the pool” has become a weekly activity for my kids. Both of them had not started swimming yet, but they certainly enjoy just being in the pool, splashing each other and play ball. My daughter, while wearing arm floats, has started floating on her back, which she practically learned on her own. I was watching my boy when my husband, who was taking photos from the side, called out. I turned around and saw her floating on her own. She has yet to learn to go without the float, though.
And there's my little boy.
Just for fun, watch these videos of my kids in the pool. Sorry about the video quality, it was taken from my 2 MP old camera phone. And please excuse yours truly yelling in the background. A mom just gets too excited sometimes. Heh.
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Thursday, January 27, 2011
Tips on how to boost your breastmilk - my breastfeeding journey
My baby boy has turned 14 months old and he’s a fully breastfed baby, despite my contracting breast abscess when he was just 1 month old. I’ve a lot of friends and relatives, even strangers, asking me, “How are you able to produce so much milk?” FYI, I don’t actually get 12 oz at each pumping session. I used to be able to pump about 6 to 8 oz of milk every session, 6 times a day, before my baby turned 6 months old. That means the total milk I produced for the day would be about 36 oz, give or take (this doesn’t include night feedings).


Around the 3rd month, your breasts will have regulated their milk production up to the 6th month, and there’ll be another slight dip in your milk output as your baby starts eating solid food.
